Most retirees close to, or starting retirement do not dare to spend for fear that they will run out of money.

Most friends and well-wishers may ask them to hold back spending for fear that they may not have enough money for the future, especially if they live longer than expected.

The reason why most people do not dare to spend in their retirement is because they are worried about running out of money and have to rely on the family around them. It is human nature not to want to rely on others and be self-sufficient, or at least for the generation who are currently in their 50s and 60s.

We start with asking the question of what does an ideal retirement life look like for you?

Through this single question, it really opens up many possibilities and even opportunities. Sometimes, we throw our dreams away because we are too fearful. And that becomes a very sad retirement life.

When we know what really drives you and the kind of ideal life you would like to have, it is easy to build a spending plan around it.

In a recent conversation we had, this person had dreams of wanting to bring her family to be closer. And she wanted to bring the entire family on a cruise, including all her 4 grandchildren. But she knew it required more spending.

We helped her create an investment strategy to reposition her total assets so that she can provide a higher income sustainably over the long term, while maintaining capital, without the need to worry about volatile markets which may happen from time to time.

When she had confidence that the strategies were sound, she went ahead with the cruise. It was her way of bringing the family together to bond with no distractions. We planned for it and she had her wish come true.

When she came back, she shared how she saw her grandchildren enjoying the time on board the ship, she had a big smile on her face and she felt a sense of joy and purpose. Family time was the most important to her and she said she wanted to do this again! She is definitely able to still be able to provide that.

We were able to give her the confidence of being able to spend more without the worry of running out of money through smart planning with us. And that was something that changed for her to instil the power of possibilities at her age.

Have you thought about what your ideal retirement life would look like for you and still have enough to last you?